Will complete soon
Been 16 years so I better complete this already.
A thought I was discovering when I wrote the title way back, was that many dictators are often social/sexual conservatives. Stalin comes to mind. So Communism follows the track of revolution-party rule -dictatorship, with a high T male ruling the country in a pretty conservative fasion.
Dictatorship of the proletariat is just a dictatorship finally.
However after a decade in China I realized that the base of resentment and revenge of the lowest classes on which Communism is built, always continues to exist to a degree. In China it takes the complete breakdown of patriarchy, and the creation of a generation of babies, people completely devoid of emotional and social intelligence.